And before you ask, “Yes, I’ve focused on myself.”
I am building an entire ecosystem, can a girl have a little arm candy to join her?
Why do girl bosses always have crappy dating lives?
Am I too focused on business?
Let’s Get Into It
Another post about dating
I probably wrote about this in February, even March, probably even April. I know May got a dash of this too. Well, it’s June and my dating life is nonexist.
It’s shameful.
I have no prospect, do I have a crush?
Too old.
Do I think some folks are fine? Like really fine?
Sure.
However, I am not a beg you type of girl.
I am not a chaser.
Be direct.
Too busy in the house
You could say, well Chan when was the last time you went out…
Well…to be honest it was a few months ago and technically I didn’t, “go out” more so “explored” but not in a “I am trying to find someone” type of thing.
I mean, I had to focus on business, summer events and creating products so I can enjoy the summer. It was one of those seasons.
However, either my IG is too girly and not, “Oh, I am trying to get 10 men to slide in my dms” or it’s “Dang, she’s so hot, will I even equate to her?”
I’m going with the second option.
When your dating standards upgrade
In my opinion, when you upgrade your thinking, attitude and confidence, dating gets more complicated.
We’ve definitely talked about this before.
I feel like changing the subject.
No more ranting but standards, I know them by heart now.
Just ready to execute.
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What am I looking for
Alright, it’s summer.
My skin is glistening, I smell of shea butter and baby powder. I love wearing mini skirts, shorts and dresses for date night.
I desire someone who matches that, they’re God led, talented, strong, nice looking, and ready to also DATE.
I need a solider.
People are starting to notice
That I am “pretty single”.
I don’t care.
I am more so upset that no one has no recs!
Do people no longer be like, “Hey, I know this really pretty girl that’s such a poet, who loves love and wants to bake you cookies and make you espresso.”
Let’s cut to the chase
I need a boyfriend to carry 6:23 Detroit Shop‘s tables at venues.
And my wagon.
And my tent.
Okay, bye
With love,
C.Alilijah