I like my alone time, I like dating, I like men, I like shopping, I like talking.
But you know what?
I ain’t never hiding Chan again for anybody.
It’s time to truly show up.
Let’s Get Into It
How do you show up when they want you to play it small
Tune it out. Immediately.
“Thanks, wow.”
(But, no)
Sure, don’t cause harm but babes. Do you.
It’s all in the confidence.
Let it make sense to you.
How do I do that?
Well, it starts with knowing you. We already talked about that, a few blog posts ago.
doN’T argUE
Protect your peace.
If anything 25 has taught me that arguing is very draining.
It’s more beneficial to be mindful of your battles. Not every battle needs your input, sometimes just nod and look.
Experiment with your look
Try the pants. The flair kind with the chic belt paired with a halter top.
Give a look, wear some kitten heels, be sexy.
I don’t have pair of kitten heels well I kinda do…
Anyway, wear clothing that makes you feel good, confident and fly!
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Tap into your creativity
Do weekly DIY projects.
Crafty bits that allow you to get out of the hustle mindset and use your imagination.
Be intentional
Being more mindful of your interactions, how you treat people and how you build yourself as an adult.
This year is about adapting to the individual you’ve grown yourself to be at 25 and enhancing your mindset.
Seek authenticity
Be you.
By now, you know I push the concept of being the “Total You” in your full capacity.
The world needs your uniqueness, creativity, style of fashion and of course your individuality.
Don’t be afraid to truly adapt to you.
Let’s Talk About It
Are you ready to tackle year 26?