Deleted the archives.
I knew something was lingering.
Let’s Get Into It
Stop lingering on the past
It was years ago, let it go.
Let it go.
It’s time to pick a new storyline and to stop revisiting what happen in your early 20s.
Apart of the journey but it was just a chapter.
Actually it was a paragraph, maybe even a sentence.
How you can actually stop
For me, it took deleting the archives, focusing on myself and reflecting.
In my reflection, I discovered that sometimes things have to happen to teach you. When you look at situations and relations from a standpoint of not playing the victim or the villain, it helps you develop a sense of awareness and growth.
You’re no longer saying, “Why did this happen to me?”
Instead it’s, “I’m glad that happened then, versus now. I know better.”
You have to for YOU
To truly embrace where you’re headed, you can’t let old news, affect the present.
It’s not fair to YOU, the YOU who is waiting to live, go to new locations, see new attractions and eat new foods.
How can you desire peace, love and new beginnings but keep giving the past a front row seat in your life?
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Let someone else love you
Let love in your life.
Starting with how you view it.
No, actually with how you love YOU.
If you don’t love you, my blog is not for you.
The message is explicit.
You have to love you first before you ever try to love someone else and try to get someone to love you.
That goes for men and women.
Expecting just pretty dates, flowers and sexy movie nights as the basics of the relationship is not beneficial.
Can this person love me when I am crashing out about parking tickets that are being given to me for no reason?
Can they warrant a response that says, “Hey, calm down. It’s okay. Let’s figure it out.”
And can I calm down and feel safe because I have someone standing in front of me that I trust and assures me all is well?
Calmness
I am bringing peace, can you add on? Can I carry your peace between words, and actions that don’t disrupt the system.
Can I bring you Sanpellgrino drinks and fresh cupcakes from Bakehouse 46 or my house on your lunch break and just chill in the car?
Will you understand that sometimes I cry when I talk about things that happened to me because I used to be sensitive?
Will you understand flow versus force?
Is it in the phone calls of 8:23 p.m. that don’t end until 4 a.m. which is not good for any of us. That you decided you want to hear my voice for a long time.
So, long that we build us in a flow state that only the man above could’ve orchestrated himself.
Did I mention, this is calm? This is peace?
I can call you and you answer with sweetness, good morning hues and reminders of you.
“What’s your word of the day?”
When you don’t have to feel like you competing for attention, a spot, a feeling of, “He cares today,” because it’s everyday. Every single day.
Let’s Talk About It
With love,
C.Alilijah