A scratched knee doesn’t define me.
When life gives you hard moments, God flips them into lessons.
Let’s Get Into It
To be a confident woman
Keep being confident in yourself, even if it makes them uncomfortable.
Keep being confident in yourself, even if it means voicing an unpopular opinion.
Keep being confident even when the attacks get strategic because that means your shield is getting stronger.
Keep being confident.
When a woman knows herself
You spend minutes, hours, days, months, even a year building the individual you are meant to be.
Then something shakes the till.
You’re dismantled. What do you do?
Do you keep going? Do you dwell? Do you cry? Do you sit by the water for a few hours? Do you forget and move on?
She pivots
No situation in this world should destroy you.
A warrior stands tall even when swords are facing her with meaty fingers.
That’s her power; it’s enticing, it’s daring, and you want to know how she does it so effortlessly?
We shall say it’s God.
We shall say it’s great audacity.
We shall say it’s God.
Recommended Posts
- Bandaid bandits and ice cream by. C.Alilijah
- Summer journal prompts by C.Alilijah
- Summer hobbies we should all explore by C.Alilijah
- Shopping for summer date night outfits by C.Alilijah
- June was a month of blessings by C.Alilijah
It’s a blessing in the lesson
Things happen for you, not to you.
Take tough moments and shrivel them up.
Learn from them, forgive, and give it to the Most High.
Dwelling is brain rot. Going over and over and over on what you wish you could’ve changed is a waste. You can’t change what happened, but you can change how you see what happened.
And it should change for the better.
Move forward with solutions.
Stay grounded
Never lose yourself in the process of others’ actions.
Walk away.
Go back to your peace.
Make amends mentally and move on.
Come to your common ground, whether it’s infused by the strengths of nature or a simple yoga pose. Don’t lose you and your safe ground.
Recenter.
Still showing up
Don’t hide. There’s no reason to hide, there’s no reason to lie down.
No, pick yourself back up.
You are a woman who will always fight forward and become who you need to be when you can take a bad moment and turn it into a lesson.
Some lessons are brutal. Some lessons are hard, but each lesson is an opportunity for you to wake up and to grow.
Let’s Talk About It
Are you a confident woman?