{"id":9277,"date":"2026-07-14T23:35:52","date_gmt":"2026-07-15T03:35:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/?p=9277"},"modified":"2026-07-14T23:35:54","modified_gmt":"2026-07-15T03:35:54","slug":"be-sure-of-you-by-c-alilijah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/07\/14\/be-sure-of-you-by-c-alilijah\/","title":{"rendered":"Be sure of you by C.Alilijah"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because you are the narrator and actress of your own story. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nobody holds the pen but God, and he expects you to help execute chapters that represent him, his word, his life, his love. He desires to see his creation excel in their journey of life; he&#8217;s the master creator.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He made you an artist, writer, doctor, social worker, teacher, and athlete. 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