{"id":8934,"date":"2026-06-18T23:58:05","date_gmt":"2026-06-19T03:58:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/?p=8934"},"modified":"2026-06-19T00:01:20","modified_gmt":"2026-06-19T04:01:20","slug":"as-26-approaches-i-am-not-playing-it-safe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/18\/as-26-approaches-i-am-not-playing-it-safe\/","title":{"rendered":"As 26 approaches, I am not playing it safe"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I like my alone time, I like dating, I like men, I like shopping, I like talking. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But you know what?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I ain’t never hiding Chan again for anybody. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s time to truly show up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let’s Get Into It<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How do you show up when they want you to play it small<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Tune it out. Immediately. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Thanks, wow.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(But, no)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sure, don’t cause harm but babes. Do you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s all in the confidence. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let it make sense to you. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How do I do that?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, it starts with knowing you. We already talked about that, a few blog posts ago. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

doN’T argUE<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Protect your peace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If anything 25 has taught me that arguing is very draining. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s more beneficial to be mindful of your battles. Not every battle needs your input, sometimes just nod and look. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Experiment with your look<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Try the pants. The flair kind with the chic belt paired with a halter top. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give a look, wear some kitten heels, be sexy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don’t have pair of kitten heels well I kinda do…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anyway, wear clothing that makes you feel good, confident and fly!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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