{"id":8880,"date":"2026-06-11T18:23:00","date_gmt":"2026-06-11T22:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/?p=8880"},"modified":"2026-06-13T19:00:55","modified_gmt":"2026-06-13T23:00:55","slug":"i-am-tired-of-being-single-its-boring-by-c-alilijah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/11\/i-am-tired-of-being-single-its-boring-by-c-alilijah\/","title":{"rendered":"I am tired of being single, it&#8217;s boring by C.Alilijah"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And before you ask, &#8220;Yes, I&#8217;ve focused on myself.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am building an entire ecosystem, can a girl have a little arm candy to join her? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why do girl bosses always have crappy dating lives? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Am I too focused on business? <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Let&#8217;s Get Into It<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Another post about dating<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I probably wrote about this in February, even March, probably even April. I know May got a dash of this too. Well, it&#8217;s June and my dating life is nonexist. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s shameful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have no prospect, do I have a crush? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Too old. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do I think some folks are fine? Like really fine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, I am not a beg you type of girl. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am not a chaser. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be direct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Too busy in the house<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You could say, well Chan when was the last time you went out&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well&#8230;to be honest it was a few months ago and technically I didn&#8217;t, &#8220;go out&#8221; more so &#8220;explored&#8221; but not in a &#8220;I am trying to find someone&#8221; type of thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I mean, I had to focus on business, summer events and creating products so I can enjoy the summer. 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