{"id":8845,"date":"2026-06-04T18:23:00","date_gmt":"2026-06-04T22:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/?p=8845"},"modified":"2026-06-10T22:09:06","modified_gmt":"2026-06-11T02:09:06","slug":"let-someone-else-love-you-by-c-alilijah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/04\/let-someone-else-love-you-by-c-alilijah\/","title":{"rendered":"let someone else love you by. C. 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When you look at situations and relations from a standpoint of not playing the victim or the villain, it helps you develop a sense of awareness and growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You&#8217;re no longer saying, &#8220;Why did this happen to me?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead it&#8217;s, &#8220;I&#8217;m glad that happened then, versus now. I know better.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">You have to for YOU<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To truly embrace where you&#8217;re headed, you can&#8217;t let old news, affect the present. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s not fair to YOU, the YOU who is waiting to live, go to new locations, see new attractions and eat new foods. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How can you desire peace, love and new beginnings but keep giving the past a front row seat in your life? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-pale-pink-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-643f0bf28b26e2de08eccd5ad28ae293\">Recommended Posts<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__list wp-block-latest-posts\"><li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/08\/the-preying-snakes-with-nice-teeth-by-c-alilijah\/\">the preying snakes with nice teeth by. 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Alilijah<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Let someone else love you<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let love in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Starting with how you view it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, actually with how you love YOU.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> If you don&#8217;t love you, my blog is not for you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The message is explicit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You have to love you first before you ever try to love someone else and try to get someone to love you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That goes for men and women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Expecting just pretty dates, flowers and sexy movie nights as the basics of the relationship is not beneficial. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Can this person love me when I am crashing out about parking tickets that are being given to me for no reason?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Can they warrant a response that says, &#8220;Hey, calm down. It&#8217;s okay. Let&#8217;s figure it out.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And can I calm down and feel safe because I have someone standing in front of me that I trust and assures me all is well? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Calmness<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am bringing peace, can you add on? 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