{"id":8496,"date":"2026-05-05T23:38:26","date_gmt":"2026-05-06T03:38:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/?p=8496"},"modified":"2026-05-05T23:38:29","modified_gmt":"2026-05-06T03:38:29","slug":"dear-love-bug-the-remix-by-c-alilijah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/05\/05\/dear-love-bug-the-remix-by-c-alilijah\/","title":{"rendered":"dear love bug the remix by. 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I mean, I prayed just yesterday.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am writing a whole book at this point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And love still hasn\u2019t knocked on my door. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Well, do your hobbies<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s always the saying, \u201cThey&#8217;ll come when you least expect it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sure, I mean, maybe randomly at work, I&#8217;ll receive a love letter, or I\u2019ll be on Isle 5 at Walmart. Shoot, maybe an even random text while I am working on <a href=\"https:\/\/623detroitshop.com\/?srsltid=AfmBOooQxA0RVOlQkns59Nz1WGA7wl7pVuIdLIDiemkjYkevdD7eWMDN\" type=\"link\" id=\"https:\/\/623detroitshop.com\/?srsltid=AfmBOooQxA0RVOlQkns59Nz1WGA7wl7pVuIdLIDiemkjYkevdD7eWMDN\">6:23<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They always say, \u201cOh, just worry about yourself, and love will come.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I believe that, but I am worried about myself! I take care of Chandra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Always on a solo coffee date, riding my bike, enjoying the weather, hanging with family, embracing quality time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe I want to add my person to the scene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>I can take care of myself and be in love. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">And that\u2019s because I am prepped <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>For the last few months, even years, honestly, I\u2019ve been learning to love Chandra, value her, apologize to her, embrace her, and allow her to confidently say, \u201cIt\u2019s time to share myself with someone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How do you know? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve held conversations, and it\u2019s not to be disclosed ultimately, but I\u2019ve held conversations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Am I looking in the right spaces <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s another thing, I am not actively looking for a man. No, God is showing me things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>God is also showing me what\u2019s not a man, what a man is, and giving me the <em>playbook<\/em>. He&#8217;s truly taking his time with this love story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, no, I am not going out to bars or directly reaching out to men because if you know about the conversations, then you know. It doesn\u2019t work like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The waiting game <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I am impatient, I am bored, could\u2019ve had a few, but I am also intentional and intelligent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are many men in the <a href=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/26\/ice-cream-stopby-c-alilijah\/\" type=\"link\" id=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/26\/ice-cream-stopby-c-alilijah\/\">garden<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some are very attractive, very kind, even talented, but if they\u2019re not aligned with me, God is clearly removing them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There one day, gone the next. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There one second, removed the next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s how real the conversations are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Are you getting my drift?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Patience <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Trying. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am holding on because God gives me sweet surprises that bring tears to my eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He\u2019s an intentional God, careful, strong, smart, and very intentional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Letting me know the process, the wait is crucial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Simple trips to grab some food, and I add a new paragraph to the book. If we can\u2019t look at each other and pray over each other after a side of fries, I don\u2019t want it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t need a fancy dinner to feel important; I need you to hold me where we are and say, \u201cLet me make it better, let\u2019s pray.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pray for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I am praying for you <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>May 2026. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I sit in my bed, entangled in my blankets, writing to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No, I don\u2019t know you yet besides the \u201cconversations,\u201d but I know. Hmmph.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re not too far away. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While it seems so far away, I know you\u2019re not too far away. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I said to myself tonight that if I ever had to tell my future daughter about my life story, I wouldn\u2019t want to give her a book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I would show her the visual instead <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I can\u2019t settle because I gotta be able to give my children the visual I wrote the notes on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And some would say, \u201cWhy you thinking that far?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yeah, I am 25, but I am only rising, not descending. And eventually someone&#8217;s gotta take over this mission, and I gotta trust that I made the right decision for my descendants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They deserve a visual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not just any ole visual but a \u201cThis was intentional.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Do you see why I can\u2019t settle <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Woo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, dear love bug. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t know what to say anymore because I feel like I just gave it away. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t desire a partnership but a life partner. Someone I can call on when I am tired, not just when I am tired, but when I am honored as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Send my favorite reader a bit of love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So sweet, only the one from above could\u2019ve placed this together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No fear, no worries, just love<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C.Alilijah<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>*the interlude*<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8503,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","apple_news_api_created_at":"","apple_news_api_id":"","apple_news_api_modified_at":"","apple_news_api_revision":"","apple_news_api_share_url":"","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":[],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,376,6],"tags":[685,121,692,817,786,813],"class_list":["post-8496","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts","category-lifestyle-content","category-whats-new","tag-c-alilijah","tag-love","tag-love-bug","tag-love-diaries","tag-lovely-notes","tag-may-2026"],"apple_news_notices":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>dear love bug the remix by. 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