{"id":6877,"date":"2026-02-01T23:25:02","date_gmt":"2026-02-02T04:25:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/?p=6877"},"modified":"2026-02-01T23:25:05","modified_gmt":"2026-02-02T04:25:05","slug":"extra-loving-the-total-you-all-february","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/02\/01\/extra-loving-the-total-you-all-february\/","title":{"rendered":"Extra loving the \u201ctotal you\u201d all February"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It\u2019s the lovely szn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All of January, we talked about our hobbies, our affirmations, and the goal points that contribute to being the \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/01\/04\/stepping-into-2026-as-the-total-you\/\" type=\"link\" id=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/01\/04\/stepping-into-2026-as-the-total-you\/\">total you<\/a>\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In February, let\u2019s get into the love story. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A love letter<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s a love letter? To me, it\u2019s a sweet, intentional, very warm message that says, \u201cI love you\u201d. Simple as that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s an act of love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Write yourself a love letter<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-3.jpg?resize=640%2C640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6883\" style=\"width:542px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-3.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-3.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-3.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-3.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-3.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-3.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-3.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In February 2026, spend your time writing a sweet letter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A beautiful one that\u2019s full of self-love, encouragement, kindness, and sweet to you!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to write your own love letter <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Be intentional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Start with the facts:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>What would an ideal love letter look like to you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Think about YOU, what do you LOVE about yourself?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What makes you unique?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Dig into your hobbies, the qualities that make you smile.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-pale-pink-color has-text-color\">Recommended Posts<\/h2>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__list wp-block-latest-posts\"><li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/03\/dear-love-bug-2\/\">Peanuts and good decisions<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/02\/owning-623-detroit-shop-at-25-years-old\/\">Owning 6:23 Detroit Shop at 25 years old<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/01\/5-tips-on-how-to-have-a-successful-pop-up-shop-in-2026\/\">5 tips on how to have a successful pop-up shop in 2026<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/31\/when-did-we-stop-going-shopping\/\">When did we stop going shopping<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/30\/march-was-a-testing-month-but-we-survived\/\">March was a testing month, but we survived<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The language you use is key<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Be sexy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Use language that inspires you; it makes you feel good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid to say, \u201cGirl, you look good when you wear that leopard print.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI love when your curls are spiraled after that set of perm rod sets.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a love letter to you; it should be fun!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mail it to yourself or seal it up for when you need it<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-4-1.jpg?resize=640%2C640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6885\" style=\"width:507px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-4-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-4-1.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-4-1.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-4-1.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-4-1.jpg?resize=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-4-1.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/untitled-4-1.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re feeling a bit wild, mail the letter to yourself! Everyone wants a sweet message now and then.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or you can just seal it up and save it for those hard moments when you need that reality check of who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes the hardest moments require you to lean into your self-love, passion, and what makes you &#8211; YOU.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Write the love story instead <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you feel that the love letter isn\u2019t feasible, then write the love story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Talk about what you desire in love, from yourself and others.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What does a love story mean to you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How can you love yourself more so you can find the sentiments that describe how love is good for you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How do you feel about love in the relationships you are in now?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Are you truly loving yourself like you\u2019re your biggest crush?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How can I be my biggest crush<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"852\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/p1080420.jpg?resize=640%2C852&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6884\" style=\"width:574px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/p1080420.jpg?resize=769%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 769w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/p1080420.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/p1080420.jpg?resize=768%2C1023&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/p1080420.jpg?resize=1154%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1154w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/p1080420.jpg?resize=1024%2C1364&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/p1080420.jpg?resize=1320%2C1758&amp;ssl=1 1320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chandraalilijah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/p1080420.jpg?w=1502&amp;ssl=1 1502w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It starts with the love letter and writing that story, in my opinion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You should romanticize, not get obsessed with oneself, but at least have confidence in who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Know that no one can be the \u201ctotal you\u201d and understand that you are intelligent, beautiful, kind, talented, and a true asset to this society.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The world needs you, baby, and one day someone is going to make you a BIG part of their life in the most cheesy romcom way!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Let\u2019s Talk About It <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>How are you going to be the \u201ctotal you?\u201d <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love you more><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6881,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","apple_news_api_created_at":"","apple_news_api_id":"","apple_news_api_modified_at":"","apple_news_api_revision":"","apple_news_api_share_url":"","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":[],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,376,6],"tags":[698,121,697,699,114,206,273],"class_list":["post-6877","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts","category-lifestyle-content","category-whats-new","tag-february-2026","tag-love","tag-love-letter-szn","tag-love-letters","tag-self-care","tag-self-love","tag-valentines-day"],"apple_news_notices":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Extra loving the \u201ctotal you\u201d all February - The Chandra Alilijah<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Your soul is craving a personal love letter this February. 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