{"id":3517,"date":"2024-01-23T23:55:00","date_gmt":"2024-01-24T04:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/?p=3517"},"modified":"2024-01-24T12:05:15","modified_gmt":"2024-01-24T17:05:15","slug":"what-i-would-of-told-my-younger-self-its-okay-to-dead-the-friendship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chandraalilijah.com\/index.php\/2024\/01\/23\/what-i-would-of-told-my-younger-self-its-okay-to-dead-the-friendship\/","title":{"rendered":"What I would\u2019ve told my younger self: It\u2019s okay to dead the friendship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Friendships as you get older either grow stronger or they start to fade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My friendship group from high school to post-college has decreased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That tells you one thing&#8230; a lot of my friendships faded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now at 23, I have realized it is okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Understanding your growth<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Who I was at 16, is not the person I am today at 23. I have grown up in so many ways and my mindset has changed. I no longer let people run over me, I speak up for myself. 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